Ex girlfriend sending me mixed signals?

Zach Asked: Ex girlfriend sending me mixed signals?

I know this is long and I'm sorry but I still love her very much, we went out for 3 months(I know a very short time, but I know this feeling as I have had it once before).We took things a little fast, as I moved here(Florida) from Hawaii(not for her, but as Hawaii is expensive, and I was already looking to move and was already looking and interested in the area I moved to before me and her ever met. It only happened out of sheer luck that I ended up 20 minutes away, also we got together before we even truly met), and I stayed with her for a month as I asked if I could stay with her while trying to find a place.I eventually found a place that I bought and moved out, I was gonna ask her if I could move in with her but as she was jobless at the time she said she had to find a job and couldn't focus on what she needed to do as I was a good distraction but she needed to pay her bills.

Well everything was going fine until she didn't contact me for around 4 day's(when she did text me back, it was due to me messaging her friend asking if she knew if my now ex was fine, which she wasn't happy about).I then figure alright ill just let her have her space(after one night of ignoring her she texts the next day that she loves me, and I text her back I love you too).Later that day I go on Facebook and see that she deleted the comments of her loving me, deleted 2 of the 4 pictures when we went to Busch Gardens of us kissing, and then changed her status from in a relationship to single, I had text her asking for my stuff back, and asked why she did it threw facebook, she said it was due to her little cousin asking too many questions that i'm immature and she said I jumped the gun and the real reason she wasn't talking to me was cause she claims I lied(which I have never lied to her).

Well after some texting and me pleading that she stay with me (I know I shouldn't have done it but what I did is done and I can't change it), she said if we can't be friends it would have never worked and that she is to stressed to be in a relationship as she is far in debt(47 grand to be exact), has no one to rely on, got kicked out of her house(now lives in a trailer), got kicked out of school(long story her mom's fault) and that she is willing to loose everything, and everyone in her life in order to hold on to her house, car, and dogs.I am sure there is no other man in her life so don't say it's cause of another man cause it's not. She said she wants to stay friends and if where meant to be together we will be, that nothing will change and that she still cares for me and we should go to the mall and eat Chinese food(her favorite place) her treat.I text back saying ok, and asking maybe later if we could go to her house and watch a movie as friends, she said no my house is off limits until I feel comfortable with our friendship.

Well we went to the mall and hung out, ate Chinese food, we went shopping/browsing around the mall for a few hours(she called me babe once and then said oh sorry), we seemed to have a great time.I took her back to her car where I picked her up from work, she went home and so did I.Well I tried texting her the rest of the night and really didn't get much of any text back from her. So on Wednesday morning I text her good morning, like I always do.

When I woke up I didn't get any text but after I text her asking how her day was going she said good but my feet are killing me. I said i'm sorry too bad we couldn't find you shoes at the mall. She text back saying I know. Then she text saying if you want, you can come up to here and eat, just try to be here before 1:30 as she was off at 2.I was going to text her back right away but thought no ill just go surprise her. So I went up there and when I got there she was smoking outside I went over to her and She complemented me on my smile and jeans(as they where tighter than what I normally wear) after word I went inside and ate, she served me the food and after words she said if I wanted to hang for little bit we could while she did her paperwork.

I decided alright I will, we talked while she did her paper work, and then I asked her to go to Walmart with me as I needed a longer cable cord for my sisters room, she said ya sure I need to get dog food too. So we went and I pushed her around in the cart ha ha.well on the way back to her car she was saying I should become friend's with her brother, I said ya that sounds good and then I dropped her back off at her car we hugged and I told her I would text her later she said ok and she went home and I went to my house. I text her after I got home to no avail, saying hey what's up. I decided to text her like nothing was happening. saying Ugh stupid stud finder wont work, I am trying to put up my sisters TV, and asked her if she would like to talk on the phone sometime like we use to and maybe we can go to the movies